We pick up where we left off. 1. In fact he ended the wonderful relationship we had because he says he needs to think of whether or not he wants kids and family or not. I cant figure out whats going on. His withdrawal is to let you know he is upset and perhaps to punish you by ignoring your texts (manipulative, but it does happen). He may become moody or withdrawn, which can be difficult to deal with for those who are close to him. And our conversation end with quarrel. Good luck all you gals out there. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. First time he gave me the silent treatment I was a bit agitated with him because he kept calling me difficult and I got pissed and told him something mean like 'you better go back online and find an easy-going girl who had an easy life'. But I seriously think I am pregnant and am freaking out. so yeah.. is he playing. As a Scorpio woman, I believe theres at least one more reason which is missing in that list: Scorpio Man wants to feel absolutely in control and indispensable. Opt for places that give you space to talk one-on-one. Should I be calling him or a. I pressuring him I really don't want to scare him or make him feel like I am trying to possess him. I would wait forever if he asked. He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. He will make you feel like you are the only one for him, but this is only a ploy to make you do what he wants. If he loves you, he will be asking a lot of questions about everything that has something to do with you. I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 years and a half. I hope this advice helps. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . Scorpio man lives in his own way and does not care about others. Should i stay or should i go. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. I lost my mind. usually he will reply with yes, love. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. I dont know what to do? other from the real issue.ALWAYS. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. He has never been mean or anything like that. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. They wait until they feel they have sufficient justification and then lash out. Blame is unhealthy in any relationship. I know he loves me and he had showed me and he had told me he's serious about me so I dont have doubt about it. Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . Now he's gone. Our Love is real we know it from the Start. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. He has this Sunshine Smile, this happy Puppy Look. We stayed in Contact for the next 3 Years. I am freaking crazy about this guy. Do not Act Desperate and Clingy. i read here the Scorpio guy said "Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain." The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. We were great in the beginning and then slowly, he started to withdraw from me. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. We haven't been intimate and the bullshit has gone on for a year. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. At this point, it's not about you understanding what he is angry or hurt about. Both times i had to hear from him via email that its over. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! Nothing. He can be so intense with his feelings; but he does have moments when he is withdrawn, and it makes me feel like he is not interested. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. He did not talk to me at all . I mean we have made so many plans. If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. Him and I were only in a friend's with benefits thing for over a year. You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. Their hard outer shell seems tough and a bit dark, but it's all to protect the bleeding heart within. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . In astrology, there are several complex methods of determining compatibility beyond sun signs. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. Be honest cause hes very intuituve and can read you really well. I really having trouble while dealing with him emotionally. This is both a blessing and a curse. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! This gives Scorpio natives an innate push to seek personal growth on a soul level. First, Scorpio doesn't want to be disappointed, so they lay back to ensure the feeling, whether it's only crush or love. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. Im a Capricorn so Im very hurt on the inside but Ill never show it outwardly. I have even called him out on his silence. Being in Love is wonderful. Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. Well for about a year he has changed. I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. But if he is unhappy for any reason no matter how minute, he will withdraw and cheat on you--this is the stinger part. I really need help tho, here is the problem. So the time comes to hang out a second time and he doesnt respond to me for like 4 hours after we agreed to meet and then started asking me if he could trust me/if I trust him. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. First he'll become stony and cold. A few weeks ago we started talking again and admitted our feelings to each other. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. Mine always seems to have no time for me . I can't say anything to him. When you are with a friend, get ready to be bombarded with a lot of questions. There is nothing I don't love about this man. Travel. Prove you are serious about it by talking about long-term plans. If I ask him to be with me he says let's end this as I m too demanding and impatient . Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. Even sexual relationship is outstanding but emotionally not. Please help! Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. She may even be seeing someone else on the side. Be strong and dont let him control you. Scorpio men are born between October 23 and November 21. We met at a party, hooked up and then hung out like twice. I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. No casual bumping of hands or quick, friendly hugs. Understanding him 2. I know the Bug had a Gig near my Place so i went to Hogans to surprise him. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! I go through the same thing when i don't receive a text for 1 day cause it's just such an extreme change from the normal..also don't want to be needy, but sometime i feel like i need to have more self respect, it's not okay to be coldishback and forth with extreme wow he really really loves and wants me to feelings of I really don't know how he feels at all??? This article is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. Mind you, it will not be a vacation by the sea. What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. Give each other space. 1. Posted on February 2, the video has amassed 80,000 views. Nothing. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. "I care for you, but I cant give this relationship what it needs" You will be fine. I don't always know how to express my feelings and say things no matter how good at communicating I am. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. I can see good in people and, have little qualms of telling someone they are special, Doesnt always mean that romantic feelings are happening but love in what ever form, be it friendship, compassion or. Scorpio men and intensity go hand-in-hand. Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. and i just okay with it although a bit disappointing. I just want to know, How do I treat him in this situation? I dont like some things I think or say, be they fact or not. I have stood by him knowing how hurt he is. They need lots of love , attention & affection . Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. but sometimes he shuts me out of his life for at least 3 or 4 days. com. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. After all we have been together for 2 and I a half but he is not receptive to my feelings. Very true. We have both been under work stress. That was only a month of knowing him. He is pure magnificence. Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. I'm dealing with a Scorpio who says he loves me after 2 weeks of knowing him and has literally poured out his heart to me to only stop telling me these things weeks later. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. Then he asked me to meet up with him at his friends house, who he knew I used to have a relationship with years ago. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. But things are slowy getting boring for me. When that doesn't get the point across or make him feel vindicated, he'll become passive-aggressive. Scorpio sun signs are born from October 23November 21, right between Libra and Sagittarius. I am not giving up on Him, not giving up on us. Remember, your partner's sun sign is never an excuse for abusive behavior. I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. He's Angry If a Scorpio man acts like he doesn't care, he could be angry. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. Also with some women I have a great attraction but is not always about sex, but companionship, frienship. This Scorpio guy made me feel secure as every time I asked him something out of my curiosity (resulting from my insecure), he always gives that clear answer. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. If i do , i fear he may not trust me anymore. They will want to think things over before making a decision. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. He broke up with me over text about a week and 3 days ago. They will care about you if your part of that inner circle. The Bug came to install a Walk in Shower. When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it's one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. This is so helpful! This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. This allows time for your Scorpio man to miss you. We haven't talked to each other much since. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. Conversations with him will feel like the world doesn't exist for him at all. Long story short - i asked him whether he was seeing someone and he replied yes, but he only went out for one date only. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. He won't lash out right away. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. I decided to stop emailing him and just wait for him to think all this through. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. When he's sad, he often feels deeply and intensely. Should I carry on asking him to talk to me or move on . I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. If a Scorpio man likes you, you can glimpse his longing for you when you lock eyes with him. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. My dad, brother and ldr bf are all scorps and my bf is triple scorp and I can tell u this is absolutely true for these guys! 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